I moved to Korea recently and I'm finding it really hard to make Korean friends?

Elena Petrova ·

I moved to Korea recently and I'm finding it really hard to make Korean friends. I mostly end up hanging out with other foreigners. How do I actually build genuine friendships with Korean people?

1 Answer

WeBring ·

Making Korean friends can be tough at first, but it's definitely possible with the right approach. Here are some practical tips:

Apps and platforms

  • Meetup.com: Join groups for hiking, language exchange, sports, or hobbies in your area
  • HelloTalk or Tandem: Language exchange apps where you teach English and learn Korean. Many real friendships start here.
  • SOMOIM on Naver Cafe: Korean hobby groups. Great for meeting Koreans with shared interests.
  • Bumble BFF mode: Yes, it works for finding friends too

Activities that work well

  • Take a Korean class at a community center (주민센터). Your classmates are a natural friend group.
  • Join a sports club: hiking clubs, running crews, or futsal leagues are very social in Korea
  • Volunteer: Organizations like Habitat for Humanity Korea or local animal shelters
  • Take a cooking class, pottery class, or join a gym with group classes

Cultural tips

  • In Korean culture, friendships often form through repeated contact (same class, same gym, same hobby group) rather than one-off meetings
  • Drinking culture is a big bonding activity. Accepting invitations to eat and drink together really helps.
  • Koreans tend to be close with people their own age. Knowing basic Korean age-related etiquette helps.
  • Learning even basic Korean shows effort and opens many doors

Don't give up. The first few months are the hardest. Once you break into a Korean friend group, you'll find Koreans are incredibly loyal and generous friends.