I moved to Korea recently and I'm finding it really hard to make Korean friends?
I moved to Korea recently and I'm finding it really hard to make Korean friends. I mostly end up hanging out with other foreigners. How do I actually build genuine friendships with Korean people?
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Making Korean friends can be tough at first, but it's definitely possible with the right approach. Here are some practical tips:
Apps and platforms
- Meetup.com: Join groups for hiking, language exchange, sports, or hobbies in your area
- HelloTalk or Tandem: Language exchange apps where you teach English and learn Korean. Many real friendships start here.
- SOMOIM on Naver Cafe: Korean hobby groups. Great for meeting Koreans with shared interests.
- Bumble BFF mode: Yes, it works for finding friends too
Activities that work well
- Take a Korean class at a community center (주민센터). Your classmates are a natural friend group.
- Join a sports club: hiking clubs, running crews, or futsal leagues are very social in Korea
- Volunteer: Organizations like Habitat for Humanity Korea or local animal shelters
- Take a cooking class, pottery class, or join a gym with group classes
Cultural tips
- In Korean culture, friendships often form through repeated contact (same class, same gym, same hobby group) rather than one-off meetings
- Drinking culture is a big bonding activity. Accepting invitations to eat and drink together really helps.
- Koreans tend to be close with people their own age. Knowing basic Korean age-related etiquette helps.
- Learning even basic Korean shows effort and opens many doors
Don't give up. The first few months are the hardest. Once you break into a Korean friend group, you'll find Koreans are incredibly loyal and generous friends.